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There is one viewpoint, one specific way of seeing creation – our lives, what happens in our lives, and more specifically what we see as trouble with people and incidents and events in our lives.

It would be true to say that without people, we don’t have problems. And so since there is no way of controlling others (we try to do that all the time – success ratio?) or incidents (more controlling of people) there is one thing that many of us is starting to understand through the teachings of Abraham, other non physical teachers, Wayne Dyer, Chopra and on it goes – and the one thing which enables us, truly , to finally get how our control of our worlds works (and control is possible), is understanding that THERE IS NO OUT THERE.

No out there, you really create it all – and your world appears to be outside you because that is the way your world is set up…
While we give our power away to the actors in our movie (family, friends, enemies, lovers) by trying to have them love us so that we can get them to do what we need them to do so that we can feel better, we miss the whole point….. and that is that we CAN control our lives, and the people in them – if we realize that the control is vibrational and not through action, and that we have control over that vibration. So the vibration that you send out, regulates the general vibration of your world…. And feeling good means that everyone benefits, not only you. And so focus on keeping happy, and in this way everyone and everything vibrates at that level!

There is no out there – there is only you.

© Nina Ferrell 2010

We are used to regarding our surroundings as hostile. When we evolve as beings, that becomes less and less so, and we start understanding that we control our lives. And as we understand that, we create different lives, and everything changes.

We all wake up at a certain time. It can happen that a huge group of people wake up together (remember, this is often not known by the person him or herself.)
What has happened and is happening in Haiti, is an example of this. From the point of view of their Inner Beings, it is simply a shift toward greater wisdom and a massive evolvement, done together. Those who have passed on during this shift, although we experience it as such an immense tragedy, are not gone. The door between life and death is become less and less solid, and we are understanding more and more that in fact, there is no separation at all, there is simply a shift in consciousness.

Of these people, many chose to remain alive and to do their evolvement that way. The others chose to pass over, and to assist from that level.

This is not a tragedy, although as human beings we see it that way, and of course there is the pain of those who feel left behind, who lost the physical presence of their loved ones.

The effect of trauma on a human being can be felt in two ways – it can either be cleansing, like a fire burns everything clean, or it can be something we choose to hold on to until we are able to learn the lesson that the incident held for us. What we feel and thank about Haiti has a direct impact on those people – if we hold them in light and love, understanding what is truly happening instead of being shocked and very very upset, we can see them evolving, understanding who they truly are, as this great group of beings move together towards bigger abundance for themselves and the creation of a massive shift of that part of the world.

There is no wrong here, no blame, and as I said before, our viewpoint of what is happening and our ability to love them and hold them in the light is contributing directly to their ability to lift their heads and look into the future with hope.

© Nina Ferrell 2010

If it is true that we create our worlds, then fearing our future creates fearsome futures –

What if we could simply throw all (human) caution to the wind and do what calls out to us? Take that plane to that place which has been calling to us for so long? Leave the job which has been slowly sapping our life? Turn our back on the relationship which turns our life into a dreary monotonous landscape?

The trouble starts when we assume that things “happen to us”, that we are powerless in the face of our troubles and our unhappiness, that we feel drawn into our dramas and won’t even consider for a moment that the possibility exists that we can simply walk out of them.

We hold onto our old lives because we think that there is nothing more out there – not another partner, not another job, that our security depends on us staying is this life sapping job because jobs are so scarce –

If we remember the times when we felt we were flying, no matter how short they were, when we allow ourselves to accept the possibility that we may truly be creating our lives, then suddenly we are attracted to people who also start believing it – we become magnets for events and folks who confirm our beliefs –

Our present fears can be turned into our present dreams, which will become our exciting and wonderful futures. If we can let go of them.

© Nina Ferrell 2010

Our intimate relationships are gifts. They bring light to us, reflecting our own magic presence back to us and we fall in love with ourselves over and over again.

Relationships are mirrors, nothing less and nothing more. We attract those who are able to reflect our imperfections back to us, those imperfections that need to be healed and embraced so that we can move further away from separation thinking, further and further towards oneness. And when the mirror sends back to us an image of loss, abandonment, pain, exactly that which we need to heal in ourselves, we back away in horror and we discard the mirror. And often we buy another mirror right away, seeking the beautiful image of ourself over and over, never able to integrate the pain, the abandonment issues, continue which will, inevitably, be reflected back to us from every new mirror, eventually. And every time we acquire a new mirror, we miss the opportunity to heal.

How do we find the courage to go on?

We find the courage by understanding that honesty is what it is all about. But we also need to understand here that the ego disguises honesty as an attack, very often, in order to protect itself. Blunt honesty, “telling it like it is”, is very often nothing more than an attempt to gain space, to hide, to step away from the inevitable mirroring of that which needs healing, yet again.

Honesty, true honesty, the ability to talk to our partners with the intention of assisting healing for them, is about healing ourselves. About understanding that no relationship should ever be left unhealed, because when we remain unhealed, we will encounter the same challenges again and again and again. The fear of hurting others often keep people trapped in relationships for lifetimes – know that fear of hurting our partners by being honest in love and kindness allows our pain to continue unhealed, disregarding the reason why we are in the relationship, and allowing the relationship to become a prison in which we become more and more disempowered.

We need to heal every relationship before we can leave it, because the healing is ultimately about ourselves.

Be gentle with your partner. Understand that their pain is their healing, and that yours is yours. Have the courage to stand back, to give them time to heal, and recognize that your pain is yours to deal with. There is a lot of talk of sharing in relationships, but I think that that is about sharing the good stuff. When pain and conflict arises, it is necessary that your partner knows that you are there, that you love them, but that you cannot go into that dark place with them. And when they eventually surface and are able to be open again, you will simply be waiting with open arms.

© Nina Ferrell 2009

Love, intimate personal love, brings to the surface all that from which we have been running, every single thing we have been keeping in the closets of our heart.

We have the choice, every time, to keep on running, to hide and turn our backs on these gifts, mistaking their wrapping for their contents, or to turn back and embrace our open wounds. We can choose to use these times of healing as the ground work for the steps to our greater selves, to greater understanding and compassion, and to our Christ nature.
We make the error of seeing our partners as the be all and end all since they bring with them such a radiant reflection of our most beautiful facets – yet they are but an extension of our Selves, bringers of great tidings, the tidings that love is all there is, and ever will be.

We can choose to see any sign of upheaval in our relationship as another chance to heal, or we can choose to focus on it as a negative occurrence, from which we must run.

It must be said here of course that there truly are relationships that cannot be changed, and at times like these we may need to consider the possibility that the lesson has been learned, and that we need to release the teacher.

Our obsession with stability and our need for constant reassurance comes from a place of lack, from a place of fear, and this is the reason why we tend to water a tree long after it has stopped bearing any fruit. If we are able to remember, once again, that we create our reality and our abundance, that we create our relationships as vehicles towards our expansion, we will be able to let go.

© Nina Ferrell 2009

I have found in my work with people and my research that people all have what I would call a “Dominant Life Vibration.” This denotes that one specific thing which they are having the most challenges with, and it is also in this area that they will manifest the most change and problems, and this area is also their biggest area of healing or shift.

Your Dominant Life Vibration is the platform of this lifetime from which you play the game, it is also the filter through which you regard others and all events in your life will come to you by way of this mindset. Of course, as you evolve, this vibration/view of your world shifts as well, and it is by measuring the changes in this field that you will most easily be able to measure your advancement on your path.

If your DLV is one of sadness, of feeling unworthy, depression,of feeling undeserving and also having show up in your life confirmation of this, i.e. low abundance, losses, etc, growth will, for you, show up as feeling better, seeing yourself as more deserving etc. and of course also your life with start showing the signs of this – better abundance, greater self confidence, better relationships with friends and family etc.

If your DLV is one of anger, of having difficulty controlling yourself, of flying off the handle easily, of blaming others for what shows up in your life, then of course the change in your life will be feeling less aggressive, more tolerant towards others, and your life will become more and more peaceful as you unfold spiritually.

And if your DLV (and these are just examples) is one of having learnt as a child that helping others brings you attention and love (which it of course doesn’t), and this has led to a life of co dependent relationships and addictive behavior, improvement in your life will show itself as being able to allow others to live their lives, being able to enforce boundaries in your life, etc.

And of course it is true that these demarcations are text book examples – what one would normally find is a mix of many of these – and the greater the growth the individual has chosen to experience in this lifetime, the more DLV’s you will encounter in that person’s life, all waiting to be shifted as he/she moves towards spiritual enlightenment.

How amazing we are – all these situations are of our own creation, our ways of shifting area’s of less than optimum vibration in our lives. It is necessary to understand that there is no right and wrong here, just moving along a scale of pinched off vibration to a place of greater connection to Source and pure positive energy.

© Nina Ferrell 2009

We are Terah, the energy band known as Terah – an Abraham-like essence, working with this channel to bring forth information which will resonate with some of you, while others will not find this a vibrational match, as it should be.

Diversity, questioning, the exchange of information, the choices that you all make all the time, are what drive the planets, the universe, the ever expanding worlds that you are creating as you also are ever expanding.

We would like to stress here that every channel has a specific energetic vibration which will attract those of like vibration. The voice of every channel is to be heard clearly, unmuffled, unsuppressed – and this is a challenge to those of you who love uniformity, who love general agreement, who feel uncomfortable in a climate of diverse opinions.

This is the main reason why we are coming through so many channels – we want to encourage diversity, so that all of you can find in the messages of our channels, information that feel like “home” to you, information that assist you with your learning (or remembering, since you already know) and your unfolding.

There are no holy cows for us, but if anything were holy it would be the voices of our channels – let them not be tampered with, do not discourage them however “right” you may feel you are as opposed to their “wrongness” – how can you see yourself as right from your limited human perspective? When you are constantly changing, your “right” may be your “I don’t know” tomorrow – and we prefer “I don’t know” because from a mindset of “I don’t know” you can learn… but from a mindset of “I am right” your mind is closed and no further knowing is possible.

We look forward to hearing more and more clear, diverse, voices, as you find your feet amidst the changes in your life.

And of course, our love accompanies you – as always

Terah

© Nina Ferrell

As Lightworkers we are feeling our way forward, through masses of information from other Lightworkers, to find out own true path, remember what our mission is here and now, because there are many. At the dawning of each Aquarian age, countless “helpers” are sent to a planet to assist with the smooth transition from the Piscean age (which is usually an age of control ) to the Aquarian age, which, in fact, interfaces with eternity and an earth on which all duality has disappeared.

These helpers are us. We reach out to each other to assist the remembering process – very much like getting amnesia when one is on a train and then being helped by the other passengers to remember. And these helpers and wayshowers – I am one, many of you are too – also feel their way ahead, at the head of their friends and associates, to open the road and enable everyone to step into what they came here to do.

We are hope. We are love incarnate, and we have our own special challenges on this planet. Payment for our services, is one. Wanting to help too much, another. Not being able to allow others to learn their lessons without wanting to spare them the pain, yet another. So on top of remember who we are, what we are here to do individually and as a group, we have the additional challenge of understanding the laws and boundaries of this planet, and her people.

We are the ones who are the optimists. We are the ones who follow Abraham, and Kryon, and others who are here to help us remember. When we find a teaching which makes us feel good, which resonates to us, we have found another piece of the puzzle to our discovery of who we are. The Law of Attraction and the way it is taught all over the world is a grid of light for us, to enable us to integrate this earth reality and to help us understand what we are here for, AND to assist those we are helping to unfold and expand as well. We are all so similar yet unique, each and every one of us. What is right for one of us may not be right for another. We therefore need to sift through all the information that we find, and accept only that which feels good and real to us.

And so it is important, in this time space reality, that we give credence to what we discover as real for us, that we protect ourselves from negativity, that we surround ourselves and others with love and light – the cocoon we need to turn into the cosmic butterflies that we all are.

With love and light,

Nina.

Think about changing your attitude to people, events, occurrences that displease, upset or irritate you – every time you react by being angered, irritated, disturbed by an incident or something someone else did – remember that YOU create your reality, and so exploding and getting angry with the messenger is totally non productive…

Every time you react with a negative emotion to an incident which upsets you, you condemn yourself to more of the same as resistance creates more of the same – but if you can get yourself to relax in the midst of the incident or upheaval and ask yourself – what can I learn from this? How does this serve me? What does it mean to me that can help me? you circumvent your need to control people and your outer circumstances – because you accept and acknowledge that you create it ALL, and therefore you can change it YOURSELF.

It is never between you and someone else – always between you and YOU. Always.

© Nina Ferrell

Angels are all around us. They are present in their masses, constantly ministering to us, taking care of us, surrounding us. They never intervene in any situation unless asked to. They never impose themselves on us.

In this time of great awakening, we are being given the opportunity to connect with higher energies, and our angels are no exception. They are light and love without ego and seek only our highest good. They are there when we need them, hearing when we speak, comforting when we need comfort, and companions in our lonely hours.

Our angels are there for us, – they are the love of Source in their shining radiance.

Your angels are a heart beat away.