NINA FERRELL

A great number of people I have been talking to during the past few months have a problem plagueing them: they are stuck.

Stuck, unable to more forward, unable to get out of a rut, unable to get out of a bad relationship, a bad job, a hum drum existence, – unable to make the Law of Attraction work for them. Stuck.

And being stuck also means feeling stuck. It’s not a good feeling. You feel as if you are in limbo, hanging in the air, no going back and no going forward – where is “back” anyhow? The past is moving away from us, yet the future appears constantly just beyond the horizon, seen in our linear human way.

Well, I have learned that stuckness means ongoing resistance. On the roof of the house next door, where I live in this little village by the sea, a lot of loud stuckness, resistance, goes on every morning. It wakes me up. A couple of Egyptian geese use the roof as a platform to pick a fight with a lone male who is trying to make friends. This goosy resistance goes on day after day, unresolved.
Continuous loud resistance, every morning, honking and squawking and complaining. And nothing changes. Of course.

We honk and squawk a lot, too, don’t we?

I think the solution is the following – in order to be able to move on, we need to accept the things that we feel stuck about and remove our attention from them….. because stuckness simply is resistance to what is. And when we resist, we reward ourselves with more of the same. We focus on what we do not want, and it remains the same.

We can move forward …. If we can accept what is, relax about it, understand that we are creating it and keeping it in place, and then use our LOA skills and simply transfer our attention from what we are unhappy about – however hard it may sound to do right now – to a peaceful, calm knowledge that you are unstuck. And that you are now able to make a choice for a better outcome.

(And as I type this, a local radio station is broadcasting a show about – how to get unstuck!)

Happy shifting!!

The Law of Attraction, which is simply cosmic universal law, provides you with all the knowledge necessary to untangle yourself from the place of victimhood that you have landed in. Its principles are clear – but not always that simple to apply.

So you want something, and you get to that feeling place of knowing that the order has been taken, you feel what it feels like to have your dream, you let it go and …. ok, this is the tricky part – you relax and allow. Or do you?

Right, so you don’t. And now the hassles start. The “Where’s my stuff?” syndrome rears its familiar little head. “Is all this stuff just myth?” “Am I an exception to the Law of Attraction?” “I’ve done everything I can – why is this just not working for me?”

The answer could be one of many – but most often, you have one of the main principles of the LOA working against you here. WHAT YOU FOCUS ON YOU GET MORE OF.

Now, what are you focusing on? The feeling of having your stuff? No? Then….. ah… you are focused on the lack of your stuff in your life, and as you focus, yearning comes into your vibration which is a sure-fire killer of the chance of your stuff coming to you. You need to be on the right platform to be able to welcome the train bringing your stuff.. simplistic way to sketch the situation, but if you are in a place of scarcity you vibrate scarcity and it is pretty sure that you will attract – scarcity.

And when you are in this place of scarcity, the challenge is how to get out of it. It feels stuck, you feel somehow buried under, unable to get out from under it. And then you start pushing against your inability to get out from under it. Double damage… big time focus on lack.

Now you have an additional challenge…

OK. There is a solution – and it’s simple and easy, and when the load shifts off your shoulders the feeling of relief is as real as rain on your face.

This is it: embrace your feelings of negativity. Accept where you are at. Know that the contrast you are living, the difficult place you are in, brings with it its own lessons, and do not waste the contrast – never let a chance to milk it for all it’s worth pass you by. Say to yourself – how can I see this differently? How can this work for me? And that simple thought, accepting where you are and willing to look at it from another angle, releases some kind of spiritual hand brake, and suddenly the feeling of weight lifts – and you can move on.

Embrace the negative things in your life. You attracted them, they are clay in your hands, turn them around into useful tools to create the life of your dreams. It’s like learning to drive – you are creating a conditioned reflex – and in time whenever something bad hits you, after the first drawing in of your breath, the first shock, remember – this is YOUR movie, playing off in your mind – it is playing nowhere else, it has no impact except for the impact you allow it to have.

It does not have to be bad. You steer the car, you can turn the corner. And you can do it.

We are all going through a massive energetic shift, whether we believe in it or not, and whether we want it or not. We signed up for this the moment we decided to step into another human life and like most things we moan and groan about what our lives are bringing to us.

Part of this shift is seeing people we love simply drift away from us, and people we love dying all around us. I have had more deaths in my family and in my circle of friends than ever before in my life. I lost someone dear a while ago, and I am still trying to figure out why.

It is simple. Some of us decided to be part of this shift, and some didn’t. Those who did are us – the leading edge…. The others are not in vibrational harmony with us and they are happily living their own reality. And so you will find that those who are not in tune with you and your thoughts and the creation of this reality will gently (or not so gently) filter out of your life and drift quietly away to do their own thing.

It’s not easy to lose someone, but this is not loss. We need to remember that we are all One, that this is illusion, maya, and that this game is finite, while our true connection with one another is ongoing and infinite, and love never disappears. The love goes on. We simply play our game in the way we chose to.

I hope this helps.

There is one viewpoint, one specific way of seeing creation – our lives, what happens in our lives, and more specifically what we see as trouble with people and incidents and events in our lives.

It would be true to say that without people, we don’t have problems. And so since there is no way of controlling others (we try to do that all the time – success ratio?) or incidents (more controlling of people) there is one thing that many of us is starting to understand through the teachings of Abraham, other non physical teachers, Wayne Dyer, Chopra and on it goes – and the one thing which enables us, truly , to finally get how our control of our worlds works (and control is possible), is understanding that THERE IS NO OUT THERE.

No out there, you really create it all – and your world appears to be outside you because that is the way your world is set up…
While we give our power away to the actors in our movie (family, friends, enemies, lovers) by trying to have them love us so that we can get them to do what we need them to do so that we can feel better, we miss the whole point….. and that is that we CAN control our lives, and the people in them – if we realize that the control is vibrational and not through action, and that we have control over that vibration. So the vibration that you send out, regulates the general vibration of your world…. And feeling good means that everyone benefits, not only you. And so focus on keeping happy, and in this way everyone and everything vibrates at that level!

There is no out there – there is only you.

© Nina Ferrell 2010

We are used to regarding our surroundings as hostile. When we evolve as beings, that becomes less and less so, and we start understanding that we control our lives. And as we understand that, we create different lives, and everything changes.

We all wake up at a certain time. It can happen that a huge group of people wake up together (remember, this is often not known by the person him or herself.)
What has happened and is happening in Haiti, is an example of this. From the point of view of their Inner Beings, it is simply a shift toward greater wisdom and a massive evolvement, done together. Those who have passed on during this shift, although we experience it as such an immense tragedy, are not gone. The door between life and death is become less and less solid, and we are understanding more and more that in fact, there is no separation at all, there is simply a shift in consciousness.

Of these people, many chose to remain alive and to do their evolvement that way. The others chose to pass over, and to assist from that level.

This is not a tragedy, although as human beings we see it that way, and of course there is the pain of those who feel left behind, who lost the physical presence of their loved ones.

The effect of trauma on a human being can be felt in two ways – it can either be cleansing, like a fire burns everything clean, or it can be something we choose to hold on to until we are able to learn the lesson that the incident held for us. What we feel and thank about Haiti has a direct impact on those people – if we hold them in light and love, understanding what is truly happening instead of being shocked and very very upset, we can see them evolving, understanding who they truly are, as this great group of beings move together towards bigger abundance for themselves and the creation of a massive shift of that part of the world.

There is no wrong here, no blame, and as I said before, our viewpoint of what is happening and our ability to love them and hold them in the light is contributing directly to their ability to lift their heads and look into the future with hope.

© Nina Ferrell 2010