NINA FERRELL

As human beings, we get used to putting up with a lot of stuff. We simply accept as normal that our lives are filled with little irritations, unhappy phases, difficult relationships. It is however true that we are playing the “game of life” in order to experience diversity, and diversity means happiness too, not just frustration and irritation.

The first step towards allowing yourself to be happy (yes, it has a lot to do with allowing) is understanding that it is possible. That you can allow yourself to simply allow things which you used to resist, to flow. That you can use your growing knowledge of energy as being the basis, the heart of it all, to create instead of relying on action: forcing it to go right. Ever tried that? Imagine now, with your knowledge of the result of resistance, what happens when you decide to “make it go right” no matter what…

Your true control lies in the ability to surrender. That is when you step into your power. Let it go, give it up, if only for a day. Allow it to shift on its own – you are so much bigger, so much more powerful than what you think you are in your little human body… you don’t have to see every step play out in front of your eyes to experience, finally, what happens when things go right.

Try just letting go….

Our biggest challenges in our lives are people. People who anger us, upset us, irritate us, just simply spoil our days for us.

In fact, everyone in your life reflects an aspect of yourself that you don’t want to own, are not willing to face, to allow to heal.

It helps so much to just say whenever you encounter someone who challenges you or with whom you have had some kind of altercation: “ What part of me am I encountering?” You always project the unhealed parts of yourself onto someone else.. always.

And when you are able to send love to that part of yourself, to that person, the result is – peace. And a definite change in your relationship with that person. And you have evolved more, expanded more.

Happy healing!

This Law is a primary tool for the Soul to master physical life on the
Earth plane. It ensures that all conditions and situations that the
Soul desires for eventually mastering material reality are drawn to the
attention of the human intellect by virtue of the oneness of universe
energy.

The Law of Attraction is not understood by a five-sensory intellect
unintegrated by the wisdom of the Soul, and this has been reflected in
shortcomings in the principles, policies and practices of human
institutions such as government, slowing the evolution of human
consciousness and achievement.

Experiences perceived as “bad” by the survival-focused intellect are
viewed by the multi-dimensional Soul Mind as “lessons to be learned”.
While the unintegrated intellect believes humans are “victims” of
negative situations in the material world, the Soul knows that humans
are co-creators of material reality and negative situations fuel
positive solutions.

Human government attempts to “rescue” those who, at the Soul level of
awareness, understand the negative-positive lessons of worldly existence
under Cosmic Laws and would choose not to be interfered with. A
stubborn intellect may require exceptionally negative and repeated
lessons to break onto positive levels to overcome self-defeat. This has
been witnessed particularly in “miraculous” recoveries from some
physical disorders.

It’s a major lesson to understand that putting a negative, rather than a
positive interpretation on any situation, causes disorders in the
physical body. Just as a blood clot can block the flow of the vital
fluid and cause a heart attack, so can a blockage of negative thought
cause disorder in muscles, tissues, and cells. Energy needs to flow
freely. Whether a situation is personal, local, regional, national,
worldwide or extraterrestrial, negative interpretation can cause a
physical disruption of energy in some way.

Such is the Law of Attraction to the power of mind energy. A decision
to let go of negativity and “let God” is a handy release valve until one
accepts personal responsibility for the co-creating of conditions, and
knows that in the long term, “every experience is positive”.

What is true of the microcosm, is true of the macrocosm. Negative
interpretation of any event can cause physical disorders from personal
to planetary, and beyond. Potency of the Law of Attraction throughout
the universe energy is such that all life is affected.

An unintegrated intellect will attract repeated lessons until it
understands that the material brain is to integrate the universal mind
of the Soul for an optimum human experience. It’s the Law.

Mastering the power of co-creating material reality for positive ends
means consciously utilizing the Soul Mind to influence matter, and the
Law produces sometimes harsh lessons needed to accomplish the feat.
Souls that experience impairment or loss of the human body, for example,
have attracted to the human intellect the lesson of overcoming such
conditions with what is simply termed “mind over matter”. It may
require more than one lifetime, but the power to influence all material
things, even Earth changes and weather conditions, has always been
available.

By the Law of Attraction, the human intellect eventually listens to the
wisdom of the Soul and, hence, everything from physical wellness and
abundance, to planetary harmony and Heaven on Earth is mastered.

The bottom line is, Cosmic Law is the supreme law of the universe, and a
government absent of this Soul wisdom attracts lessons as evidenced here
by the advancement of an AUTHENTIC CONSTITUTION in harmony with the
natural Cosmic Laws of the universe, and producing High Moral Values and
Democratic Ideals.

http://www.globalvisions.org/cl/swn/cosmiclaws/attraction.html

I think the universe may be trying to tell me something.

Over the last several months, Tim and I have had an ongoing issue about a promise he keeps making and breaking. Of course, I know that pushing against something perpetuates it, but I can’t seem to help myself. I keep telling Tim that he is letting me down big time when he doesn’t follow through on what he says he’ll do.

Follow through is huge for me. Keep promises. Tell the truth. I think these actions are the core of integrity. The fact that my husband hasn’t been doing these things has been driving me nuts.

I understand that it’s a total waste of my time to try and get anyone, Tim included, to do what I want. That is not my work. I get it.

But I keep doing it anyway.

Even as I do it, I can hear my thought, “Perhaps if I just let this go and focuse on what he’s doing that I like, it will all fall into place.” That thought feels good, so it obviously is aligned with my higher self.

Then my “lower” self pipes up: “But we’re talking TRUST here. How can he keep breaking my trust??”

Back and forth. Round and round.

It’s not doing a thing for my marriage, I can tell you.

So a couple days ago, I get this Abraham-Hicks quote in my inbox:

“Anything you do to overcome or prevent, causes a spotlight on the very thing you are wanting to overcome and prevent. You cannot take enough action to compensate for the Energy that you’re flowing.”

Right. I knew that. I can’t prevent Tim’s lack of follow through. I can’t talk to Tim about the problem enough (and believe me, I can talk A LOT) to compensate for the resentful, angry energy I’m flowing.

Still. We’re talking TRUST.

Can you say entrenched?

So yesterday, this Abraham-Hicks quote hits my inbox:

“I’ll Not Ask Others to Become Different for Me…. Let your Vibrational Escrow percolate, and you do your best to give it your undivided attention so that you become a Vibrational Match to it. And then, when the Law of Attraction brings all of it together and brings you, because you’re a match, together with it – then there aren’t any bugs to work out. Don’t ask the person, or people, that helped you to define what you want to become what you want so that you can have what you want. … Instead, let them be the Step One part of it (the asking part). Use your willpower and your decision to focus upon what you want – and then the Universe will bring you what you want.”

Do you notice a theme here?

And for the slow learners among us, i.e., me, here comes Karen’s post on Abraham Fun for yesterday:

“There is no person on the face of the earth who can make me happy and keep me happy but me. I stop expecting others to live up to my expectations and, instead, I take responsibility for my mental focus. No matter what anyone else is doing or not doing, I can choose to give my attention to what pleases me and, through universal Law of Attraction, I will get more of the same.”

I left the bold in this entry; that’s the way it was on Karen’s site. She said she couldn’t get the bold to go away. That’s obviously because law of attraction knew I needed to SEE this in bold so I’d finally GET it.

So, all right. I’ll stop trying to get Tim to change.

The very fact that I want him to change is what is preventing his change. Because wanting his change shows that I have my awareness on whatever he’s doing that I don’t like and that I want to change. So I am being NOW someone who is unhappy with her partner, and by being that unhappy person, I must remain unhappy because the law of attraction matches up with where I am, not with where I want to be.

When Abraham says “I can choose to give my attention to what pleases me,” I believe they’re saying give my attention to a way of being that pleases me. Just BE the way I want to be now, putting all my attention on the feeling of holding this happy identity, this contented, “it’s all good” identity.

It’s all about feeling like I want to feel now. This story I tell, this identity I’m stepping into, is the only place I need to put my attention.

Tim is happy to hear this.

If it is true that we create our worlds, then fearing our future creates fearsome futures –

What if we could simply throw all (human) caution to the wind and do what calls out to us? Take that plane to that place which has been calling to us for so long? Leave the job which has been slowly sapping our life? Turn our back on the relationship which turns our life into a dreary monotonous landscape?

The trouble starts when we assume that things “happen to us”, that we are powerless in the face of our troubles and our unhappiness, that we feel drawn into our dramas and won’t even consider for a moment that the possibility exists that we can simply walk out of them.

We hold onto our old lives because we think that there is nothing more out there – not another partner, not another job, that our security depends on us staying is this life sapping job because jobs are so scarce –

If we remember the times when we felt we were flying, no matter how short they were, when we allow ourselves to accept the possibility that we may truly be creating our lives, then suddenly we are attracted to people who also start believing it – we become magnets for events and folks who confirm our beliefs –

Our present fears can be turned into our present dreams, which will become our exciting and wonderful futures. If we can let go of them.

© Nina Ferrell 2010