The radius of your heart – Heaven Letter # 3504

That you welcome all into your midst means that you don’t keep anyone out from the circumference of your heart. No matter how someone has offended you, he is still welcomed to the world. You do not obliterate him. If someone hurt your feelings twice, you are not entitled to hurt his once. It is not necessary.

If someone snubbed you ten times, you are not to snub him once.

Never let enmity get so far that you do not talk to someone. You don’t turn your nose up in the air. Because someone acted poorly is no reason for you to cast him out from the radius of your heart. Because someone was less than you, you do not become the same as he and less than yourself, for then you diminish life on Earth, and you diminish all.

Acting on My behalf means to equate yourself with Me. Climb higher. If you must copy someone, copy Me. That is the same as to say to widen your horizons. Do not lower your horizons. Do not copy one who has offended you. Rise instead.

I do not hold anything against anyone. I do not turn anyone away. All are My children, and all are innocent. Free Will means that you are allowed to make mistakes. You yourself have done so. Everyone on Earth has done so. All are free to come to Me at whatever junction in life they may be at. I welcome all. I do not welcome only the holy. I welcome all, those who seemingly need Me the most as well as those who seemingly need Me the least. Who is to say, beloveds, which you are or which someone else is.

The inter-relationship between all My children is unfathomable. That the connection exists is not arguable. There is one great team that everyone plays in, and each affects the other. What part you play may be questionable, but that you play a part is not in question.

If you are a basketball player, it is for you to jump high.

If you are a swimmer, it is for you to swim far.

If you are a digger, it is for you to dig deep.

If you are a speaker, it is for you to speak well of others and yourself.

If you are listener, it is for you to listen.

If you do not understand someone else, it is for you to learn understanding.

If you resent someone’s words or deeds, it is for you to let go of resentment.

If someone owes you an apology, consider that it is given. If necessary, make their apologies to yourself for them in your own heart, and it is done. Accept their apology, and now make your own apology for taking offense to them. It is true that you are sorry you took offense. And now the message is sent, and now you have freed yourself, and now you can move forward in life.

Life is to be fluid, beloveds, and you are to be fluid. You are not to be rigid, nor are you to bind yourself to one position from which you cannot move. Let your heart flow.

If life is to be agreeable, then you must be agreeable.

This is what it means to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. You are the one who goes first. You are the one who paves the way. You pave the way by uplifting yourself and, therefore, others.

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Getting God

As we progress from forced religion, dogma, through disgust and disillusionment, to spirituality, unfolding, and finally bliss and understanding, we lose God, and then we start getting God. That much maligned name – God. The name called by so many in their deep misery, at their last moments, at the time of great and intense happiness, numinous epiphanies that hit us like lighting bolts from the blue.

I get God. I get God/Source/Goddess/Yahwe/Yah Mo, whatever.

The name matters not. He/She/It/We/I am bliss – deep flowing illuminating intense joyful uplifting finally knowing connection to Source – final connection to Me.

And God gets bigger as I understand more. God is never judgemental, never punishing – how could He be? He gave Us all the tools do to it all ourselves – We Are Him. Every cell is Him. And He is in our every breath.

Oh my God, I finally get You. I get You. I understand.

Freeing the voice within – Eva Gregory

We each have an inner guide, that voice that has the right answer but is sometimes overlooked. Our inner guides are always with us, but often muted. Later when it is realized that the voice, intuition, or instinct should have been heeded once it’s too late to correct the initial decision. But we are at choice at every moment! Sounds a little hard to believe, right? Who would choose to have a marriage dissolve, or a career end? But a little investigation will often uncover a “feeling” that this person is not exactly what was desired, but maybe close enough, or the job paid very well, so even if some of the tasks were not in alignment with the idea of the ideal job it was worth it. So in essence choices were actually made to gag one’s inner guide and roll with the situation.

How many times have you thought “Man, if I had only listened to my instincts!” That was your inner guide telling you which way to proceed and it was ignored. Do you know who the largest population of inner guide listeners are? Children. That’s one of the reasons they tend to get in so much trouble with adults, because they do what their inner guide advises without thought to consequence, feelings, or safety. Their one goal is to do what they believe will make them happy at any given point in time, and they do. Children do not realize that the world does not revolve around them, but they also have not been taught that it’s their job to make and keep everyone happy (a true fallacy in today’s society.) If everyone accepted responsibility for their own happiness, a possibility by listening to our inner guides, the world would be a much happier and harmonious place.

Madison was sitting in Pre-K and was bored. She didn’t like circle-time, but preferred free-play. She looked longingly at the pots and pans and began to squirm and fidget while Miss Karen discussed the story. Unable to stand circle-time for one more moment Madison began to inch herself away from the circle, closer to the play kitchen cubbies. Madison finally made her way to the pots and pans and was in about to dive in when Miss Karen busted her. She was called back to the circle and told to remain in place. A few minutes later Madison again began to look at the pots and pans, and decided that since she couldn’t leave the circle perhaps Miss Karen wouldn’t mind if she brought the pots and pans to the circle with her. That didn’t fly either. Finally, unable to contain herself any longer, Madison jumps up from the circle grabs a pot and spoon and placed herself in the time out chair! She knew what she wanted, knew that it wouldn’t be appreciated by her teacher and that she would be punished, but didn’t care one bit. She got what she wanted…happiness. She was tapped in, tuned in and turned on to her inner guide and did not stray.

Adults could take lessons from children. Remember that the ultimate goal in life is j-o-y, and it is ones’ responsibility to create for themselves. But it cannot be done without focus, intent, and practice. Learn to quiet the conscious thinking of the mind for no more than 15 minutes each day and allow the inner guide to come through.

Here’s how:

• Focus on breathing, or the flicker of a candle, or use an audible like “Om.”

• Once the mind is quieted, physical detachment will occur and you will be in a state of “allowing.” This is when the inner being will take over. You may feel an involuntary movement in your body, like just before you’re falling asleep and your foot moves, or you feel as if you’re falling – this is THE state where the energies are in alignment.

• Determine your path for allowing your alignment energies to come through. It could be through blocks of thought, writing, a voice or through some other manner.

Everyone has the ability to do it. The key is to find the time to make it happen and not censor what is coming through. Be consistent and a mere 30 days is all that it should take to get into the swing of things. Simply learn to relax, allow and receive. Your happiness depends on it.

We each have an inner guide, that voice that has the right answer but is sometimes overlooked. Our inner guides are always with us, but often muted. Later when it is realized that the voice, intuition, or instinct should have been heeded once it’s too late to correct the initial decision. But we are at choice at every moment! Sounds a little hard to believe, right? Who would choose to have a marriage dissolve, or a career end? But a little investigation will often uncover a “feeling” that this person is not exactly what was desired, but maybe close enough, or the job paid very well, so even if some of the tasks were not in alignment with the idea of the ideal job it was worth it. So in essence choices were actually made to gag one’s inner guide and roll with the situation.

How many times have you thought “Man, if I had only listened to my instincts!” That was your inner guide telling you which way to proceed and it was ignored. Do you know who the largest population of inner guide listeners are? Children. That’s one of the reasons they tend to get in so much trouble with adults, because they do what their inner guide advises without thought to consequence, feelings, or safety. Their one goal is to do what they believe will make them happy at any given point in time, and they do. Children do not realize that the world does not revolve around them, but they also have not been taught that it’s their job to make and keep everyone happy (a true fallacy in today’s society.) If everyone accepted responsibility for their own happiness, a possibility by listening to our inner guides, the world would be a much happier and harmonious place.

Madison was sitting in Pre-K and was bored. She didn’t like circle-time, but preferred free-play. She looked longingly at the pots and pans and began to squirm and fidget while Miss Karen discussed the story. Unable to stand circle-time for one more moment Madison began to inch herself away from the circle, closer to the play kitchen cubbies. Madison finally made her way to the pots and pans and was in about to dive in when Miss Karen busted her. She was called back to the circle and told to remain in place. A few minutes later Madison again began to look at the pots and pans, and decided that since she couldn’t leave the circle perhaps Miss Karen wouldn’t mind if she brought the pots and pans to the circle with her. That didn’t fly either. Finally, unable to contain herself any longer, Madison jumps up from the circle grabs a pot and spoon and placed herself in the time out chair! She knew what she wanted, knew that it wouldn’t be appreciated by her teacher and that she would be punished, but didn’t care one bit. She got what she wanted…happiness. She was tapped in, tuned in and turned on to her inner guide and did not stray.

Adults could take lessons from children. Remember that the ultimate goal in life is j-o-y, and it is ones’ responsibility to create for themselves. But it cannot be done without focus, intent, and practice. Learn to quiet the conscious thinking of the mind for no more than 15 minutes each day and allow the inner guide to come through.

Here’s how:

• Focus on breathing, or the flicker of a candle, or use an audible like “Om.”

• Once the mind is quieted, physical detachment will occur and you will be in a state of “allowing.” This is when the inner being will take over. You may feel an involuntary movement in your body, like just before you’re falling asleep and your foot moves, or you feel as if you’re falling – this is THE state where the energies are in alignment.

• Determine your path for allowing your alignment energies to come through. It could be through blocks of thought, writing, a voice or through some other manner.

Everyone has the ability to do it. The key is to find the time to make it happen and not censor what is coming through. Be consistent and a mere 30 days is all that it should take to get into the swing of things. Simply learn to relax, allow and receive. Your happiness depends on it.

We each have an inner guide, that voice that has the right answer but is sometimes overlooked. Our inner guides are always with us, but often muted. Later when it is realized that the voice, intuition, or instinct should have been heeded once it’s too late to correct the initial decision. But we are at choice at every moment! Sounds a little hard to believe, right? Who would choose to have a marriage dissolve, or a career end? But a little investigation will often uncover a “feeling” that this person is not exactly what was desired, but maybe close enough, or the job paid very well, so even if some of the tasks were not in alignment with the idea of the ideal job it was worth it. So in essence choices were actually made to gag one’s inner guide and roll with the situation.

How many times have you thought “Man, if I had only listened to my instincts!” That was your inner guide telling you which way to proceed and it was ignored. Do you know who the largest population of inner guide listeners are? Children. That’s one of the reasons they tend to get in so much trouble with adults, because they do what their inner guide advises without thought to consequence, feelings, or safety. Their one goal is to do what they believe will make them happy at any given point in time, and they do. Children do not realize that the world does not revolve around them, but they also have not been taught that it’s their job to make and keep everyone happy (a true fallacy in today’s society.) If everyone accepted responsibility for their own happiness, a possibility by listening to our inner guides, the world would be a much happier and harmonious place.

Madison was sitting in Pre-K and was bored. She didn’t like circle-time, but preferred free-play. She looked longingly at the pots and pans and began to squirm and fidget while Miss Karen discussed the story. Unable to stand circle-time for one more moment Madison began to inch herself away from the circle, closer to the play kitchen cubbies. Madison finally made her way to the pots and pans and was in about to dive in when Miss Karen busted her. She was called back to the circle and told to remain in place. A few minutes later Madison again began to look at the pots and pans, and decided that since she couldn’t leave the circle perhaps Miss Karen wouldn’t mind if she brought the pots and pans to the circle with her. That didn’t fly either. Finally, unable to contain herself any longer, Madison jumps up from the circle grabs a pot and spoon and placed herself in the time out chair! She knew what she wanted, knew that it wouldn’t be appreciated by her teacher and that she would be punished, but didn’t care one bit. She got what she wanted…happiness. She was tapped in, tuned in and turned on to her inner guide and did not stray.

Adults could take lessons from children. Remember that the ultimate goal in life is j-o-y, and it is ones’ responsibility to create for themselves. But it cannot be done without focus, intent, and practice. Learn to quiet the conscious thinking of the mind for no more than 15 minutes each day and allow the inner guide to come through.

Here’s how:

• Focus on breathing, or the flicker of a candle, or use an audible like “Om.”

• Once the mind is quieted, physical detachment will occur and you will be in a state of “allowing.” This is when the inner being will take over. You may feel an involuntary movement in your body, like just before you’re falling asleep and your foot moves, or you feel as if you’re falling – this is THE state where the energies are in alignment.

• Determine your path for allowing your alignment energies to come through. It could be through blocks of thought, writing, a voice or through some other manner.

Everyone has the ability to do it. The key is to find the time to make it happen and not censor what is coming through. Be consistent and a mere 30 days is all that it should take to get into the swing of things. Simply learn to relax, allow and receive. Your happiness depends on it.

Eva Gregory, master coach, speaker and author of The Feel Good Guide To Prosperity has instructed thousands on the Laws of Attraction in person, on the radio and in dozens of teleconference training seminars and programs. She is the author of several books and e-books and has co-developed several telephone-based and internet-based training courses on the Laws of Attraction. To learn more about her products and services, visit http://leadingedgecoaching.com.

Substitute need – Leonard Jacobson

Question: You speak of a hierarchy of repressed emotions as follows: anger, hurt, need, and fear. I gather from what you say that our needs, other than for survival, are an illusion. Is awareness of these needs all that is necessary for them to be met and to move beyond them? Is there some action we must take?

Leonard’s Answer: The only true need is the need for others to be present with us. All other needs are substitute needs. When we came into this world as tiny and vulnerable babies, we had a need for our parents to be truly present with us. But to varying degrees, they were not, and so we did not feel safe. In order to feel safe, we began our pursuit of substitute needs.

“Well, if you will not be present with me, then will you at least love me?”

It soon became obvious that we would not receive the level of unconditional love that we needed to feel safe, so we went after the next substitute need.

“Well if you will not love me, then will you at least accept me unconditionally?”

That substitute need was not met.

“Well, if you will not love and accept me unconditionally, will you at least approve of me, or acknowledge me, or make me feel special.”

With each step we take in pursuit of these substitute needs, we are moving away from ourselves and becoming lost in others.

Most of us spend our entire lives in pursuit of these substitute needs, completely unaware that all we really need is for others to be truly present with us. One who is fully present is loving, accepting and acknowledging. When another is truly present with you, you get it all.

-Leonard Jacobson

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Loving the simple days

We are working so hard at being happy, at consciously creating our lives, at following the LOA and reading, reading, reading…

And while we are doing this, and assisting others, and finding our path (sometimes not), and going two steps forward and one step back and getting angry at ourselves and turn ourselves into pretzels. things happen, unbeknownst, almost, to us.Those things are the simple days. The shuffle by, unnoticed, quietly shrugging to themselves, wearing their little grey overcoats one after the other, after the other.

Maybe this is what we are missing, what we have been missing , all along. They are jewels, the simple days. They are what we are living while we are trying to live… they are the ones with the surprises we don’t see, the miracles we simply rush past, and the help we don’t give. We are so busy just wanting it all to be perfect.

Stop and look. Take one of these simple days and dust it off. Take off its little overcoat and put it in the sun for a minute. See how it flowers suddenly, see those bright green leaves and the way it turns its heart towards the sun? See how good it feels just to be for a minute, without rushing, and hoping, and wanting?

These simple days are our lives. They are us. We create them. Let’s settle down sometimes and just BE them.

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