We made an interesting shift in Universal energy as of January 1, 2009. Each soul was asked starting in June 2008 if it wanted to ascend. (Not necessarily ascend to the 5th dimension. We were asked if we still wanted to work on connecting to our Soul or did we want to be more grounded and work on only Earthplane issues.) Changes in relationships started showing up at that time. For some of us, it happened in our love relationship. Things occurred after this question was asked that would not have happened otherwise. These people made decisions which caused them to pull away from us. I am here to tell you that if you went through that, it was necessary for that loved one to be away from your *light*. They could not make that Soul decision while being overwhelmed with the *light* that you are constantly emitting. If you are with that loved one again or both of you are working on getting back together, that Soul answered the Universal question with a “Yes, I want to ascend.” For those of you that experienced this you may be feeling like you are on shaky ground. This is mostly because it came out of the blue and shocked you. See, you never would have left that person. You would have continued to forgive anything and everything because you try to keep the bigger picture in mind. So Spirit in some relationships had to do something drastic to get you two apart so that your loved one’s Soul could have an opportunity to answer this question in only their own *light*. Once the decision was made, they came back. We know that it is hard to forget what occurred during that time, however with forgiveness and with this knowledge of why the interference in your relationship really happened, you will be able to put it behind you. Keep your face to the *light* and know that you are capable of having a new and brighter love with this person because they did choose to ascend.
If you have not reconciled with that person, your loved one’s answer was “No.” The reason that you are not back together is that a door closed on January 1st. You are on the higher, ascension side of the door and they are on the stagnant, lower energy side of the door. If this happened to you, please understand that this was not that person’s fault and it was not your fault. This was a Soul decision and not about just this lifetime. It was about all the lifetimes the Soul has lived and where it wants to go next and how quickly it wants to go there. Forgive them. Forgive yourself. And be excited for what is ahead for you. I have talked with many people in their Soul Sessions recently and healed them of this energy. I know how hard it is when you loved that person and then all of a sudden it was taken away. If you cannot move past this situation, you will not be able to bring in another Soul who is capable of loving you in the way you truly deserve that is wanting the higher energy too. Pray about it and see if you are ready to let go and move on.
The relationship with yourself has also changed. With your decision to ascend and to remember more consciously who you are as a piece of God, you are exuding more confidence and power through grace and love. Not feeling it? It is there. Remember to be gentle with yourself during this process of remembrance. You have all the puzzle pieces lying on the table but sometimes you try to fit the piece in the wrong place. The good news is that you have all the pieces! If you feel that you are not able to go out in the world because you get shifted, then be conscious of when this occurs and work on it. Pray about it. Ask your Soul why this is happening and then change the response you have to the world. This walk you have chosen is about being conscious of who you are. In the 3rd dimension we were walking mostly unconsciously and just accepting life because we couldn’t have anything different than what was originally set up for our lives. Now you are in a position where you can create your life. The big difference between you then and the new you is that are not doing anything through ego. You have power but it is not egotistical power. You give love but it is not through control. Tell yourself that you are loved. Tell yourself that if you were not in this world now, it would be lacking something important and necessary. Take care of yourself in a way that you never have. Truly allow love to flow into every part of your life…your body, mind and spirit. This is what you have been seeking; the piece of God that was missing in your life. You have been seeking this piece for many lifetimes outside of yourself and always felt incomplete. Now you can have it. You can finally love yourself. It’s time!
May you love yourself as the Angels love you,
Christ-ina
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