There is one viewpoint, one specific way of seeing creation – our lives, what happens in our lives, and more specifically what we see as trouble with people and incidents and events in our lives.

It would be true to say that without people, we don’t have problems. And so since there is no way of controlling others (we try to do that all the time – success ratio?) or incidents (more controlling of people) there is one thing that many of us is starting to understand through the teachings of Abraham, other non physical teachers, Wayne Dyer, Chopra and on it goes – and the one thing which enables us, truly , to finally get how our control of our worlds works (and control is possible), is understanding that THERE IS NO OUT THERE.

No out there, you really create it all – and your world appears to be outside you because that is the way your world is set up…
While we give our power away to the actors in our movie (family, friends, enemies, lovers) by trying to have them love us so that we can get them to do what we need them to do so that we can feel better, we miss the whole point….. and that is that we CAN control our lives, and the people in them – if we realize that the control is vibrational and not through action, and that we have control over that vibration. So the vibration that you send out, regulates the general vibration of your world…. And feeling good means that everyone benefits, not only you. And so focus on keeping happy, and in this way everyone and everything vibrates at that level!

There is no out there – there is only you.

© Nina Ferrell 2010

Are you a master distractor? Chances are, you are much better at this than you think. And this is a GOOD thing. Over the last few years, we really have mastered the art of distraction…distracting ourselves from the relentless discomfort of What IS, so we can allow What Can BE to come fully into form. And in mastering this metaphysical game, we learned that the more fun we have, the easier it is to play.

We also learned in the beginning that the only way to jump from one vibrational reality (or set of potentials) to another is to:

1) Ask/intend for something better
2) Make peace with where we are…to cease feeding the present discomfort of “not having” with the energy of our attention/focus
3) Align with the vibration of what is desired (aka LOA: that which is likened unto itself is drawn)
4) Allow it to come to be thru complete detachment (trust/neutrality)

Suddenly seems like a lot of steps, doesn’t it?

Luckily there is now an easier way.

The Vernal Equinox in March brought with it the activation of a new set of diagnostic codes which initiated a more complete merging of the male/female (manifest/unmanifest) polarities within us. For many of you, the integration of these energies in cellular form is what will result in the complete vibrational alignment with your divine blueprint.

Because of this deeper alignment with source, you may be noticing that it is becoming increasingly less important to pay conscious attention to getting what you want. In fact, you may have noticed that small manifestations are still arriving rather effortlessly and with shocking speed.

It’s even becoming easier to see how cocreation really has very little to do with consciously intending for better specific realities since it is our spiritual nature to continually create and recreate higher and better experiences…to be, do and have all the things we desire that will make life more enjoyable and expand or enhance our potential expressions of divinity.

In other words, our desires are really nothing we need to think about or plan any more…they just are. And when we get completely out of the way, they are fulfilled.

Conscious cocreation really requires a more holistic approach based in overall vibrational sustainability, as opposed to the fragmented version of manifestation that is so readily taught today. It is about becoming conscious of the truth…that we create our reality… taking responsibility for that role by acknowledging our past unconscious choices, cleaning up our vibration by letting go of discord…and the rest is about allowing something better to arrive.

Which, is where most people trip up.

So if we no longer need to consciously intend for what we desire…what do we do while we are “waiting” for our intentions to ground?

In a sense… nothing.

But nothing is really hard to (not) do in human form since we are generally programmed to always be doing something…and when we are doing nothing it is way too easy to focus upon the discomfort of What Is, or the waiting for What Will Be, which in turn creates more discomfort and more waiting, etc., etc., ad infinitum.

The trick to this trade is exactly what we have been doing all along during our individual and collective ascent into higher consciousness…simply distracting ourselves from What Is to allow What Wants to Be.

Intuitively we knew that in order to experience a better reality, we needed to completely disconnect from the one at hand, so we could then feed and nurture a new and higher reality…but this was so much easier said than done.

The truth in this concept actually comes very natural for parents and babies…think about how often and successfully we distract children from any unpleasantness to quickly lift their attention to a better-feeling place. Or my fav… when a toddler falls and then looks around to see who is contributing to their reality of pain before they cry. Many times a baby will only cry when someone acknowledges their suffering… so what happens if the suffering is overlooked?

A profound shift happens…

When we make peace with What Is… that is to say we offer no resistance by avoiding the temptation of e-motion-al attachment… the unpleasantness quickly passes by.

The same holds true for managing the time between the What Is and What Will Be of our intended realities: If we cease to resist (feel discouraged by/get attached to) the present by knowing that it is temporary, while distracting ourselves with ANY better-feeling thought or experience… the unpleasant feelings fade and we are immediately aligned with Source again… freed up to experience the vibration of goodness which in turn expedites the handling of our universal request.

And just to be clear, distraction is NOT in opposition to presence…it is the key that unlocks the source vibration within us and allows us to effortlessly access and play with the future potentials of desire. Distraction is brilliant for immediately releasing us from the heaviness of what is by focusing our attention on anything else that feels good.

So as the equinox period draws to a close with the full moon in balancing libra and with the celebration of the ascension of christ-consciousness approaching, we find ourselves still in the familiar void, teetering between the worlds of What Was and What Will Be.

And along with the void always comes the physical integration, which we are still in the throes of (extreme fatigue/flu-like symptoms/vertigo/back aches/soreness/muscle weakness/digestion disturbances/appetite changes/ect.) as we complete another remarkable biological recalibration.

So be sure to put the finishing touches on any preparatory plans for your very new physical lives. Our connections and inspiration will soon return and in even greater ways, but… for a few moments longer…we gotta keep practicing the fine art of distraction while focusing on that better-feeling place…

We’re so, so close!

Lightheartedly,
Lauren

http://spiritlibrary.com/lauren-c-gorgo/mastering-distraction-the-art-of-getting-what-you-want

Courtesy of:Nina Ferrell: Intuitive Guide: Relationships, Health, Prosperity
http://ninaferrell.com

Follow Me On Twitter, I Will Follow You
http://twitter.com/ninaferrell

Join Me On Facebook:
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=572210557

When we are immersed in confusion, change, when we feel as if we are in limbo as events and changes swirl around us, we need to grasp, to hold onto something. The more desperate our need, the more desperate our search for some kind of stability. And the more desperate we are, of course, the more difficult things become as we focus on them almost obsessionally.

It is a process. A process which moves us forward in our self created construct of stability – change – confusion – reestablishment of stability – stability, in an ever continuing cycle, over and over. And every time we go through this process, every time we allow ourselves to float weightlessly on the wave of the new unknown, we discover that we trust the process, that we trust our ability to come out the other end in one piece, more and more.

Familiarity with the process and the results of the process, as well as familiarity with how we create these things and how we benefit from them eventually bring us a sense of calm as we move through change.

The knowledge that we are so much more than these human selves, the ability to tap into that part of Ourself acts as the bridge to our discovery of Who we really are. It can happen in leaps and bounds, as we are experiencing during this time of enormous change.

It is uncomfortable, at the very least, and can feel catastrophic as we feel almost out of control of our lives. Yet there is an innate knowledge that we do sail these ships, these lives of ours, that the waves on this immense sea can feel life threatening, but we also are sometimes able to appreciate the magic of our own Creation – the magic of the God that we are, able to create lives that are so intricate, so well woven, that we mistake it for the real thing time and time again.

Every time we gain control of our lives, every time we go through changes and confusion just to emerge again with new wisdom and a higher vibration, we do what we came here to do – create and experience.

All is well.

The Law of Attraction, which is simply cosmic universal law, provides you with all the knowledge necessary to untangle yourself from the place of victimhood that you have landed in. Its principles are clear – but not always that simple to apply.

So you want something, and you get to that feeling place of knowing that the order has been taken, you feel what it feels like to have your dream, you let it go and …. ok, this is the tricky part – you relax and allow. Or do you?

Right, so you don’t. And now the hassles start. The “Where’s my stuff?” syndrome rears its familiar little head. “Is all this stuff just myth?” “Am I an exception to the Law of Attraction?” “I’ve done everything I can – why is this just not working for me?”

The answer could be one of many – but most often, you have one of the main principles of the LOA working against you here. WHAT YOU FOCUS ON YOU GET MORE OF.

Now, what are you focusing on? The feeling of having your stuff? No? Then….. ah… you are focused on the lack of your stuff in your life, and as you focus, yearning comes into your vibration which is a sure-fire killer of the chance of your stuff coming to you. You need to be on the right platform to be able to welcome the train bringing your stuff.. simplistic way to sketch the situation, but if you are in a place of scarcity you vibrate scarcity and it is pretty sure that you will attract – scarcity.

And when you are in this place of scarcity, the challenge is how to get out of it. It feels stuck, you feel somehow buried under, unable to get out from under it. And then you start pushing against your inability to get out from under it. Double damage… big time focus on lack.

Now you have an additional challenge…

OK. There is a solution – and it’s simple and easy, and when the load shifts off your shoulders the feeling of relief is as real as rain on your face.

This is it: embrace your feelings of negativity. Accept where you are at. Know that the contrast you are living, the difficult place you are in, brings with it its own lessons, and do not waste the contrast – never let a chance to milk it for all it’s worth pass you by. Say to yourself – how can I see this differently? How can this work for me? And that simple thought, accepting where you are and willing to look at it from another angle, releases some kind of spiritual hand brake, and suddenly the feeling of weight lifts – and you can move on.

Embrace the negative things in your life. You attracted them, they are clay in your hands, turn them around into useful tools to create the life of your dreams. It’s like learning to drive – you are creating a conditioned reflex – and in time whenever something bad hits you, after the first drawing in of your breath, the first shock, remember – this is YOUR movie, playing off in your mind – it is playing nowhere else, it has no impact except for the impact you allow it to have.

It does not have to be bad. You steer the car, you can turn the corner.

So do it.

The only reason it is not coming is because of the vibrational
contradiction within you. It hasn’t got anything to do with whether
you work or don’t work. It’s all about the story you are telling. It’s
all about the story you are telling and the way you feel when you tell it.

San Francisco 8/10/08